Are You Ready to Look Forward. Live Fully. And Create a Life You Love?
Are you ready to create a post-divorce life you love, that looks however YOU want it to look?
You absolutely can. And I can help.
Let’s be real—divorce sucks.
Divorce makes you feel unsafe. And overwhelmed. And isolated. It knocks you down, stresses you out, and spins you around until you’re not sure which way is up. But just because it’s the end of your marriage, doesn’t mean it’s the end of your life.
For me, my own divorce story is one of betrayal, confusion and learning to love life again after divorce. Life was humming along. And then, after twenty-two years together, my husband and high school sweetheart walked out on me and our son. One day I was married. The next day, he was gone, marrying my good friend and neighbor, who then took my name since we shared the same first name too, requiring me to not only reinvent myself, but also reinvent my company and personal brand. Talk about a lot to handle.
My story is one that I can tell through many chapters: my battle with breast cancer fourteen years ago at the age of 30, the demands of owning my own business, community advocacy, the balance of being a working mother, and the unexpected challenges of marriage, family and divorce, having a second chance at love, remarrying a widower with two small children, and adjusting to a fabulous new life in a blended household as Kim Becking – mom of three, party of five.
There were times where I wasn’t sure I would make it. Times where I was so angry, scared and distraught that I didn’t believe life could be good again. But not only did I survive, but I have created an awesome life that I LOVE – looking forward, living fully and making every day count. And you can too!
For me to truly create a new life on my own terms and thrive after the gut-wrenching betrayal of my wasband and ex-friend, I had to rise above my past, heal my broken heart and turn my hurt and fear into personal growth and transformation. Now I’ve developed a blueprint so that you can do the same.
I can’t take away your pain, hurt, anger and confusion, but I can help you and provide practical and emotional support. My divorce coaching programs provide expert guidance, honest feedback and helpful resources. I will be your biggest cheerleader when needed and challenge you as well, helping you move from stuck to empowered. YOU, and only you, gets to write what happens in your story after your divorce. I will show you how to face your fears with hope and to bravely write your best life chapters yet with grace, grit and gratitude.
Right now, you may be feeling confused and afraid. Divorce papers make it official, but they don’t tell you how to pick up the pieces. Life as you knew it is different now. Your future was hijacked. Your family, your friends, your Facebook, your house, where you buy your groceries—everything is different. There are days you don’t want to get out of bed, when all you can do is sob, and when you’re just left repeating the question “Why, why, why?” over and over again.
Beautiful one, I’ve been there, and I got the T-shirt.
I’ve felt broken. I’ve wondered, “What if?” I’ve cycled through shock, disbelief, anger, betrayal, fear and sadness. I’ve seen counselors and talked to food about it. I’ve hid under the covers. I’ve had to redefine my “normal.” But in the end, I learned one very important thing:
YOU are the one who controls your life.
Even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. Even if you’ve never felt in control before. Even if you’re not sure how to be in control. Even then, you’re still the one with the power.
The reality is that divorce and the devastating loss it creates can leave you emotionally bankrupt, overwhelmed and not knowing how to move forward even years after your divorce. But there’s another way.
Let me help you become the confident, strong, awesome self that you were meant to be. It’s time you take control of your life and your future and create a new life, where you aren’t merely surviving after divorce, but THRIVING – looking forward and loving your life with a renewed sense of confidence and security. It’s time you find your LOVE of life again, re-identify who you are and reclaim the happiness that you deserve.
WHY WORK WITH ME?
As a nationally-recognized expert, certified divorce coach and regular contributor to DivorcedMoms.com and the Huffington Post, I have helped hundreds of women across the country find hope again and create an awesome life after divorce with my advice, guidance and myriad of motivational resources. My expertise has been featured in People, the New York Times, SELF Magazine and dozens of other media outlets.
Don’t take my word for it. Here’s what others are saying about my divorce support:
“Kim gets it. She helped me get unstuck and continue to move my life forward after my devastating divorce, creating a more awesome life than I ever thought possible.”
“Kim provides encouragement, inspiration and support in a safe place. I don’t know where I would be without her. My only regret is not finding her sooner during my divorce process.”
Are You Ready to:
- Learn how to manage the range of emotions you’re feeling
- Move from grief, regrets and bitterness to peace, clarity and excitement about your future
- Learn to forgive and let go of the past so you can heal and move forward
- Identify, face and overcome your fears that are holding you back
- Find direction, clarity and confidence about your new life after divorce
- Kick your baggage that betrayal brings to the curb so that you can have better future relationships
- Set healthy boundaries – both internally and externally
- Learn to be alone, but not lonely
- Learn to put yourself as a priority and take care of YOU
- Rediscover who you are and who you want to be
- Create a vision for your new life, focusing on your own dreams and being hopeful for your future
- Find more peace, more joy and more laughter in your life
If you answered yes to any of these questions then I can help.
I want you to know that you are not alone. One chapter may have ended, but the awesome part is that it’s up to you to write the rest of your story. Let me help you make your story the best one yet.
For more information on my tailored coaching programs and upcoming program announcements, email me.